Emotional Intelligence, Daily. Start now: https://www.theschooloflife.com/subscription/ Does your "dating with intent" often end in disaster? This film explores the painful paradox of the anxious lover: someone who wants security so desperately that their very urgency creates the instability they fear. Discover why childhood trauma leads us to "love with too much fear," transforming our need for reassurance into a cycle of criticism, pressure, and self-fulfilling prophecies. #AnxiousAttachment #Relationships #Psychology Unlock all the content of The School of Life with a subscription to our podcast, articles, videos, and exercises, specially tailored to your needs. Get weekly insights for better relationships, deeper self-knowledge, and inner calm straight to your inbox. Sign up for more ideas, plus 10% off your first shop order: https://www.theschooloflife.com/signup/ You can read more on this and other subjects in our articles, here: https://www.theschooloflife.com/article/the-person-who-wants-love-so-much-they-never-get-it/ “There is a person who, ostensibly, wants love very much. They are ‘dating with intent’. That is, dating with an intent to marry, to form a complete life with someone, to stop ever having to date anyone again. In many ways, they are a textbook example of anxious attachment in relationships: deeply earnest, intensely hopeful and determined that this time love must finally work…” OUR COLLECTIONS https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28XmpcEwc0qydf2jSszQFSht81E https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28XmpckOvZZ_AZjD7WM2p9-6NBv https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28XmpeUL1vz9Su7OmeghBDgmj7X https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28XmpeypJMHfNbJ4RAFkRtmAN3P https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28XmpcpxBm1RoGRx4mVKNRIrKkG https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28Xmpcp7jXVszdNruKUtHZ2zuZb https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28Xmpfv2COuuJaKzy6E2n8nSMdi https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28Xmpc1qCJ6RYYh4rKNOOlKtFIK SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-school-of-life/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theschooloflife?lang=en CREDITS Written and Narration: Alain De Botton Animation: Max De Jong https://www.maxinoodle.com/