Grab your ticket for my 3-day in-person THE SHIFT EXPERIENCE event: https://themagneticchallenge.com/mgy-join Discover your vibration and get a personalized meditation to help you let go of your core pattern and raise your vibration to a whole NEW level (It's FREE) ➡️: https://whatsmyvibration.com/ Join the FREE Magnetic YOU Challenge here→ https://themagneticchallenge.com/ The more attached you are to an outcome, the heavier your energy becomes. In this video, I’ll show you how having more fun releases that resistance and makes you naturally more magnetic. 00:00 — Why Choosing Yourself Makes You More Magnetic 01:52 — Why Having More Fun Creates Breakthroughs 03:03 — Bring More Play Into Your Relationships 04:25 — Having Fun Is a Way of Choosing Yourself 06:34 — Expression vs. Impression 07:05 — Your Childhood Patterns Are Not You 08:15 — Stop Internalizing Other People’s Unavailability 09:33 — The Mother-Father Pattern You Project Onto Others 11:08 — How to Be Yourself Around People Who Trigger You 12:24 — Stop Managing Other People’s Tension 14:12 — What Happens When You Put Someone on a Pedestal 16:21 — Positive Projection Is Still Projection 17:17 — Your Triggers and Projections Come From Within 19:08 — Why You Like Certain People More Than Others 20:32 — The Perpetrator, Rescuer & Victim Dynamic 22:21 — Why Empaths Can Struggle With Relationships 24:22 — You Are Not Your Patterns or Roles 25:34 — Choosing Yourself Means Being the Real You 26:16 — Why Being “Nice” Is Actually a Pattern 28:40 — Stop Identifying With Your Survival Strategies 30:00 — The Childhood Pattern Behind Being the “Helpful One” 32:21 — How Fixing Other People Keeps You Stuck 33:29 — The Hidden Payoffs That Keep Your Patterns Alive 34:10 — The Difference Between Being Nice and Being Kind 37:14 — Let Go of Needing to Be Seen as a Good Person