When Pema Chödrön's second marriage broke down, she was in free fall. She wanted desperately to hold onto any crumb of what had been. She would have taken any scrap of possibility that things could go back to the way they were. But there was no going back. So she put one foot in front of another. That was the bravest thing she ever did. And nobody saw it. In this conversation, Pema speaks about what real bravery looks like from the inside. Not the things people notice or praise, but the quiet, private moments of choosing forward when forward is not written anywhere. She shares the instruction that has stayed with her since the 1970s, drawn from Don Juan's teachings: make the decision, and never look back. Do not second-guess. Do not wonder about the road not taken. Any decision you make is going to be a journey. Work with what unfolds rather than trying to avoid it by making the right choice. She also shares her favourite phrase, the one she comes back to whenever she is certain about something: not always so. From Suzuki Roshi. Three words that hold everything. Want to go deeper with Pema Chödrön? Join Sounds True One for more teachings like this. Get your first month FREE at https://bit.ly/4ctecMn Subscribe to Sounds True's YouTube Channel ► https://bit.ly/SubscribeSTYT Sounds True is a mission-driven learning and media company, and a recognized leader in wellbeing, personal growth, and spiritual transformation. Partnering with the world’s foremost wisdom teachers and best-selling authors, the company reaches millions worldwide with its unique programs, digital learning experiences, and worldwide events. The company also features a variety of original series, weekly shows, and live online experiences on Sounds True One, its global platform and community with members across more than 125 countries. Sounds True is a Public Benefit Corporation and also the home of the Sounds True Foundation. Connect with us: ▪️Facebook: http://bit.ly/2XFIIeE ▪️Instagram: http://bit.ly/2UlEoiH ▪️Website: http://bit.ly/2tOl02d