Grab your ticket for my 3-day in-person THE SHIFT EXPERIENCE event: https://themagneticchallenge.com/mgy-join Discover your vibration and get a personalized meditation to help you let go of your core pattern and raise your vibration to a whole NEW level (It's FREE) ➡️: https://whatsmyvibration.com/ Join the FREE Magnetic YOU Challenge here→ https://themagneticchallenge.com/ The degree to which you choose yourself is the degree to which you allow other people to choose you. In this video, I’ll show you how to stop seeking approval and finally bring that energy back to yourself. 00:00 — Why Choosing Yourself Changes Everything 01:51 — What It Actually Means to Choose Yourself 03:46 — The Version of You Around Different People 05:26 — What Choosing Yourself Actually Looks Like 06:12 — Why You Give Other People Your Power 06:58 — The Mother-Father-Child Pattern 08:15 — How to Heal the Unresolved Childhood Energy 09:25 — Why Understanding Your Patterns Isn’t Enough 11:32 — The Dark Side You Need to Embrace 12:00 — How Hyper-Independence Blocks Connection 12:45 — The People-Pleasing Pattern 14:35 — The Difference Between Nice and Kind 16:13 — Why You Attract Emotionally Unavailable People 17:02 — Stop Abandoning Yourself in Relationships 19:34 — Choosing Yourself Is a Way of Being 20:17 — Why Someone Not Choosing You Isn’t About You 21:50 — The Childhood Shame Behind Rejection 24:47 — Bring Your Energy Back to Yourself 25:32 — Feeling and Releasing Unresolved Emotions 28:08 — Expression, Play and Choosing Yourself 30:43 — Why You Subconsciously Block Relationships 36:03 — How to Stop Overgiving and People Pleasing 38:05 — Healing the Part of You That Only Feels Worthy When Giving 39:54 — Choose Yourself No Matter What Pattern You’re In