Channel: Shelley Young | Source

We have noticed something interesting in human beings and we wish to bring it to your attention today.

It only takes a couple of times of something unwanted happening to a human for them to consider it an absolute.

“Whenever I start to get ahead I get hit with a big unexpected expense.”

“My relationships always start out good but then fizzle out.”

“I always get passed over for promotions.”

“Every time my health starts to improve something else happens.”

“People always let me down.”

You get the idea. They have turned what started from one unfortunate event into a constant and a belief system. From there they create more of it until it become a very entrenched reality.

What we find very interesting is that humans rarely do that with the good things. They see good things as singular and unpredictable and unwanted events as carved in stone. What we would love to see you do is flip that habit upside down!

What if you started seeing the challenges as being temporary and fleeting? What if you started to own the good things as your new norm?

You notice someone holds the door for you and that can become, “People are so kind and are always helping me however they can.”

Spirit gives you a nudge in a new direction and that turns into, “I am always guided to the right time/right place scenarios.”

Your body has a complete healing from an issue and you decide, “My body always knows exactly what to do to heal and thrive.”

Your relationship starts out wonderfully and you decide, “The flow always supports my relationships becoming all they can be.”

You have money and suddenly get an unexpected expense: “I’m so thankful I always have more than enough for my wants and needs.”

Do you see? Pay attention to where you place the word ‘always’ and know that has become an expectation. It is a word that can be either a blessing or a curse because it is an absolute. We suggest you use it wisely.

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